Dating more than one girl at a time
For a large stripe of people, especially in cities, dating one person at a time is uncommon, if not completely fictional.But even if I'm seeing 40 women, at any given moment, I'm with only one of them.It might be sucky that you're not going to be free for the next week, but it is good that you responded to the text quickly.People are generally equipped to handle bad events better than they handle bad attitudes or treatment." It's unavoidable that you're going to let some people down.After reading the awesome book, , I actually think it’s not such a bad idea, if you’re honest and clear about what’s going on and don’t lead people on. Now I realize that for some people, non-exclusive dating, or dating several people can be a great way to date. When I was looking for love, I often dated up to three guys simultaneously. Rather, my goal was simple: to find a guy I could date more than three times, hoping this would lead to a relationship.
So many of my clients ask me whether dating more than one guy at a time is a wise idea.And if you find yourself thinking about one person you're seeing even when you're with the others, well, that's a good problem to have.Do you think dating multiple people at the same time is too messy, or is it a more convenient method for finding The One?Since there was no way to know who would stick around, I dated as many guys as I was interested in at the same time.That's why I'm an advocate for "volume dating."I dated 30 men in 15 months in order to eventually meet my husband.